Relationship satisfaction pada pasangan remaja akhir ditinjau dari emotional intelligence dan dating violence

INDONESIA:

Pernikahan pada usia remaja akhir menjadi fenomena yang masih banyak terjadi d Indonesia dan menjadi tantangan serius, salah satunya perilaku kekerasan. Data komnas perempuan pada tahun 2025 mencatat sebanyak 376.529 kasus kekerasan berbasis gender dengan mayoritas korban perempuan berada pada kelompok usia 18-24 tahun. Di sisi lain, kemampuan emotional intelligence yang belum matang kerap menjadi faktor terjadinya konflik yang berakibat munculnya tindakan kekerasan dan berakibat pada kualitas dan kepuasan hubungan. Meskipun banyak penelitian yang mengaitkan dengan faktor lain, belum banyak penelitian yang mengkaji secara bersamaan bagaimana emotional intelligence dan dating
violence memengaruhi kepuasan hubungan pada pasangan yang sudah menikah di usia remaja akhir sehingga penelitian ini penting untuk di lakukan.

Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kuantitatif dengan desain regresi linear berganda. Sebanyak 231 responden remaja akhir berusia 17-23 tahun yang sudah menikah dan memiliki pengalaman kekerasan dalam pernikahan menjadi sampel pada penelitian ini melalui teknik purposive sampling. Data dikumpulkan menggunakan tiga skala terstansar yakni, skala Emotional Quotient Inventory Model bar-on (α = 0.708), Conflict In Adolescents Dating Relatoinship Inventory Short From adaptasi wolfe (α 0.855) dan skala Relationship Satisfaction adaptasi hendrik (α 0.729). Analisis data dilakukan menggunakan JAMOVI untuk uji validitas danreliabilitas,uji asumsi klasik dan uji hipotsis.

Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa mayoritas responden memiliki emotional intelligence pada kategori rendah sebanyak 196 orang, dating violence sebanyak 166 orang yang di dominasi oleh wanita dan relationship satisfaction pada kategori sedang sebanyak 152 orang. Secara parsial, emotinal intelligence terbukti berpengaruh positif dan signifikan terhadap relationship satisfaction yang artinya semakin tinggi kemampuan seseorang dalam mengelola dan memahami emosi, semakin tinggi pula kepuasan hubungan seseorang. Sebaliknya, dating violence
berpengaruh secara negatif dan signifikan dimana, semakin tinggi perilaku kekerasan yang terjadi, semakin rendah kepuasan yang dirsakaan pasangan. Secara simultan, kedua variabel bersama-sama memberi kontribusi sebesar 27.2% terhadap relationship satisfactoin, sedangkan 72.8 % lainnya dipengaruhi oleh faktor lain diluar penelitian ini seperti religiusitas,kondisi ekonomi dan kemampuan memaafkan. Temuan ini menegaskan bahwa membangun kecerdasan emosional sejak dini dan menciptakan hubungan pernikahan yang bebas dari kekerasan
merupakan halmendasar dalam mewujudkan kepuasan hubungan yang sehat.

ENGLISH:
Marriage among late adolescents remains a widespread phenomenon in Indonesia and poses a serious challenge, one of which is violent behavior. Data from the National Commission on Violence Against Women (Komnas Perempuan) in 2025 recorded 376,529 cases of gender-based violence, with the majority of female victims falling within the 18–24 age group. On the other hand, underdeveloped emotional intelligence often serves as a factor in conflicts that lead to acts of violence and negatively impact the quality and satisfaction of the
relationship. Although many studies have linked this to other factors, few have simultaneously examined how emotional intelligence and dating violence influence relationship satisfaction among couples who married in their late teens; thus, this research is important to conduct

This study employed a quantitative approach using a multiple linear regression design. A total of 231 late adolescents aged 17–23 who were married and had experienced marital violence were selected as the sample for this study through purposive sampling. Data were collected using three standardized scales, namely the Bar-On Emotional Quotient Inventory (α = 0.708), the Conflict in Adolescent Dating Relationships Inventory Short Form adapted by Wolfe (α = 0.855), and the Relationship Satisfaction Scale adapted by Hendrik (α = 0.729). Data analysis was conducted using JAMOVI for validity and reliability tests, classical assumption tests, and hypothesis testing.

The results of the study indicate that the majority of respondents had low emotional intelligence (196 individuals), experienced dating violence (166 individuals, predominantly women), and reported moderate relationship satisfaction (152 individuals). Partially, emotional intelligence was found to have a positive and significant effect on relationship satisfaction, meaning that the higher a person’s ability to manage and understand emotions, the higher their relationship satisfaction. Conversely, dating violence has a negative and significant effect; the
higher the level of violent behavior, the lower the satisfaction felt by the couple. Simultaneously, these two variables together contribute 27.2% to relationship satisfaction, while the remaining 72.8% is influenced by other factors outside the scope of this study, such as religiosity, economic conditions, and the ability to forgive. These findings confirm that building emotional intelligence from an early age and creating a marriage free from violence are fundamental to achieving healthy relationship satisfaction.